Life just feels so much lighter
when you get along better
Guiding you from frustration to connection so life feels lighter!
Guiding you from frustration to connection so life feels lighter!
No matter how good or challenging your relationship, everyday annoyances and frustrations can quickly turn into resentments casting unnecessary heaviness and even disconnect.
We’ve all experienced this at home, at work and even within ourselves.
(I bet you are thinking of some right now)
But how do you find your way through?
Given common nuances are often passed off as “just part of life” and that’s true, they don’t have to cause such stress. You don’t have to leave work exhausted because your co-workers aren’t stepping up or come home to a house seemingly full of drama.
The truth is, most of us fall into the trap of wishing others would do things the way we would. Without realizing it, we expect sameness. But different doesn’t mean wrong, it just means we each have our own way of thinking, acting, and relating. Not to mention, expectations lead to disappointments. Once you understand these differences, the tension lifts and relationships feel not only lighter but more connected and productive.
When you feel lighter, you shine brighter.
One step at a time
First, We Create Clarity - Every relationship and situation is different. We begin with a Clarity Consultation to discover your personal process, providing insight as to how you do things best and where to be more mindful.
Then, We Practice Integration - Insight alone doesn’t create change. Through guided support over time, we work with real-life situations so new awareness turns into practical, sustainable shifts.
Finally, We Support Ongoing Alignment - As life changes, old patterns can return. Ongoing support helps you recalibrate, adjust, and continue forward with confidence and self-trust.
Each step is grounded in Self Intelligence providing a practical and consistent foundation for us to work together in understanding yourself, navigating relationships, and reaching your desired outcome.
Wouldn’t life be easier if someone could help you make sense of those everyday frustrations so the small things didn’t drain so much of your energy by walking with you as you step your way to stronger relationships?
What you need isn’t more effort or more patience, therapy or counseling but a clearer perspective and practical takeaways that actually work in real life.
What you need is a guide to show you the way - that’s where I come in.
Hi, I’m Elle Hart
Your guide to gaining insight, understanding and perspective of yourself and those around you, so the little things don’t wear you out or develop into something bigger. I help you turn tension into intention, and disconnection into appreciation, making it easier to get along better in every relationship.
For years, I tried to “be better” without ever really understanding what I needed or how I functioned. Once I discovered the power of strengths-based insight combined with emotional intelligence, that serve as the foundation for my Self Intelligence Principles, everything changed, not just for me, but for the people around me too.
That’s when I realized just how important the relationship we have with ourselves truly is because it sets the tone for every other connection in our lives.
Today, I help
~ individuals
~ couples
~ families
~ teams
in both their home and work life, strengthen their personal process and learn how to apply and implement it in real, everyday ways through
~ awareness
~ understanding
~ acceptance
~ embracement
~ management
~ empowerment
My work is compassionate, honest, deeply practical and tailored to YOU. Whether we’re meeting one-on-one, in a workshop, or through the SMW Collective, my intention is to help you feel in alignment with yourself and more connected to the people who matter most.
“ You gave me the permission to be myself I didn’t even realize I needed.”
“ I appreciate how insightful you are in bringing my strengths to life for me.”
“This is the piece to the puzzle I have been missing.”
“I knew I needed to connect with you to do this, now I know why.”
“Everybody needs to do this, seriously!”
“I feel like I can breathe again, knowing my bottom strengths aren’t my weaknesses and it’s ok to release that pressure.”
“I had no idea how valuable this would be, you are a game-changer.”
“It is magical the way you don’t just define the theory, you bring MEANING by translating it into the behavior piece that is so important for relationships which is why I want you to work with our whole team.”
Here’s what clients have to say
Your Path to Feel Empowered Every Day
Getting along better doesn’t have to be heavy, complicated or time-consuming. I have created a simple path to get you where you want to be, powered by the Feel Empowered Every Day Self Intelligence Principles leading you to follow your own personal process in all that you do while respecting others for following theirs.
Keeping in mind, before you can get along better with others, you first need to get along better with yourself!
Together, we uncover how you naturally think, act, and relate and how that shapes the way you experience others.
1. Clarity
2. Connection
You’ll see how differences, once frustrating, can actually complement and strengthen your relationships.
3. Confidence
With direction that is easy to follow, you’ll feel lighter, more at ease, and more connected at home, at work, and most importantly within yourself.
Choose your route
Each person who lands here comes with a different set of circumstances, yet most share the same underlying desire - to get along better. With themselves. With the people they care about. At home and at work.
Getting along better isn’t something you check off a list or accomplish in a single conversation. It’s something that develops over time, through understanding, practice, and support as real life unfolds.
That’s why I offer two routes, personal and professional, each designed to meet you where you are and help you get where you want to be by providing options for tailored guidance along the way.
Whether your focus is personal or professional, all work begins with clarity and builds through ongoing support.
CLARITY CONSULTATION
Personal ~ Professional
This is where everyone begins. In order to get along better with others, we first need to understand how you go about getting along in your own life. The third-party, world-renowned assessment used to identify your personal process provides an unbiased, objective picture of how you naturally do things best.
Because no two people ever have the exact same results, this means we each have our own unique way of operating, responding, and relating. My role is to take that information off the page and into real life, helping you see how it shows up day to day, how it impacts your relationships and decisions, and where it may be working for you or getting in the way.
Together, we translate insight into understanding, offering clarity without judgment and direction without pressure so you can move forward in a way that feels aligned, realistic, and true to you.
This shared starting point ensures that everyone involved has individual clarity before the work expands into relationships, teams, or organizations.
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PERSONAL
Individuals ~ Couples ~ Families
Support for getting along better in everyday life, within yourself and in your closest relationships.
How the Personal Path Unfolds
Clarity Consultation
All personal work begins with individual clarity. This foundational step ensures you understand how you operate, respond, and relate before expanding into relational, family or career focused work.8-Week Integration Series
From that foundation, we work together weekly to apply insight in real-life situations, communication, stress, decision-making, and relationship dynamics, so understanding turns into meaningful growth.Ongoing Monthly Partnership
As life continues to evolve, ongoing support provides a steady place to recalibrate, address new challenges, and stay aligned with what you’ve learned.Each phase builds on the last, allowing growth to happen in a way that’s realistic, supportive, and sustainable.
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PROFESSIONAL
Small businesses ~ Organizations ~ Teams
Relationship-centered support for leaders and teams who want communication, alignment, and culture to improve in practice, not just in theory.
How the Professional Path Unfolds
Point-Person Clarity Consultation
Professional work begins with individual clarity at the leadership level. This step establishes a clear understanding of personal process and perspective before expanding into team or organizational dynamics.8-Week Organizational Integration Series
With that foundation in place, we move into a structured period of integration, supporting leaders and teams as insight is applied to daily interactions, decisions, and ways of working together.Ongoing Monthly Partnership
For organizations seeking continuity, ongoing support provides perspective and alignment as people, priorities, and challenges shift over time.This approach ensures that individual understanding supports collective success.
Imagine moving through your day with more ease, feeling grounded in yourself, content in your work interactions, and genuinely at peace in your own home.
When you understand yourself and the people around you, the little things don’t fester into resentment. Instead, they become opportunities for connection. You spend less energy on annoyance and more energy on what truly matters, enjoying your work, strengthening your relationships, and feeling lighter in your everyday life.
This isn’t about changing or compromising who you are, it’s about discovering how to get along better, so life feels more balanced, more connected, and a lot less heavy.
