Work With Me

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When Behavior Makes Sense, Relationships Get Easier and Life Feels Lighter

Most conflict, frustration, and misunderstanding don't come from bad intentions.

They come from different Personal Processes.

The way we think, communicate, make decisions, solve problems, show care, handle stress, and navigate life is influenced by our unique Behavior Language.

When we don't understand our own Behavior Language, or someone else's, we often assume people should think, act, and relate the way we do.

That's where disconnect happens.

My work helps you make sense of behavior so you can better understand yourself, your relationships, and the people you interact with every day.

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How I Work

I don’t fix people.
I don’t label personalities.
And I don’t offer one-size-fits-all strategies or coaching programs.

Instead, I help you:

Recognize your natural patterns of thinking and responding
Understand the behavior language of others
Shift perspective where misunderstanding has created friction
Apply insight practically in real conversations and decisions

Whether seeking Personal or Professional guidance, everyone starts with Making Sense of Yourself first, from there we create the path going forward that works best for you.

Make Sense of Yourself

Behavior Language Interpretation

Why do I do that?

This one-on-one session is designed to help you understand your Personal Process and how it influences your everyday behavior.

Together we'll explore:

How you naturally think and communicate
What energizes and drains you
Why certain situations create stress or ease
Your relationship patterns
Areas where you may be unintentionally creating frustration for yourself
How to work with your natural tendencies instead of against them

This isn't about fixing you.

It's about understanding you.

When you understand your Behavior Language, you stop judging yourself for being different and start honoring how you're designed to operate.

Ideal for individuals seeking greater self-awareness, confidence, and understanding.

Make Sense of Each Other

Behavior Language Translation

Why do they do that?

Whether you're navigating a marriage, partnership, parent-child relationship, friendship, or business partnership, understanding each other's Personal Process changes everything.

This session helps translate the gap between two people.

Together we'll explore:

Why you approach situations differently
Communication disconnects
Sources of recurring tension
Different ways of showing care and support
Hidden assumptions that create frustration
How to appreciate differences instead of trying to change them

Most people don't need better communication skills.

They need better understanding.

When behavior makes sense, judgment often turns into compassion.

Ideal for couples, parents and teens, siblings, friends, and business partners.

Make Sense of Your Team

Behavior Language Integration

How do we work better together?

Every team has different personalities, communication styles, priorities, and approaches to work.

The challenge isn't the differences.

The challenge is understanding them.

Behavior Language Integration helps teams:

Improve communication
Reduce misunderstandings
Better utilize individual strengths
Increase trust and appreciation
Navigate conflict more effectively
Create healthier workplace relationships

Instead of trying to get everyone on the same page, we learn how to read the pages each person is already operating from.

Because teams perform better when people understand each other.

Ideal for leadership teams, organizations, boards, departments, and small businesses.

Make It Make Sense

Live, Online Discussion Group

Real situations. Real people. Real questions.

Join me twice each month for interactive discussions centered around one of life's most common questions:

"Why do they do that?"

Members are invited to submit real-life situations, relationship challenges, workplace frustrations, and everyday interactions for discussion through the lens of Behavior Language and Personal Process.

Together we'll explore:

Why people respond differently
What may be driving a behavior
How misunderstandings develop
Ways to approach situations with greater understanding
How to apply Behavior Language in everyday life

No lectures.

No perfect answers.

Just meaningful conversations that help us make more sense of ourselves and each other.

Because understanding creates connection.

Serving clients virtually nationwide, with in-person sessions available in Ohio.

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When behavior makes sense,

relationships get easier

and life feels lighter

I'm Ready!

Elle gave me the piece of the puzzle I was needing to improve myself

“I received the report about my strengths and found it interesting but couldn’t connect it with myself. No big sparks came from it until I met with Elle. The way she studied my personal process and how she explained it to me was a game-changer! After meeting with her I felt like I could understand myself better and has changed the way I am pursuing my goals. Elle gave me the piece of the puzzle that I was needing for my journey to improve myself and connect with my soul. Her perspective was essential for me and I’m so grateful for her help, it has already made a difference in my life.”
- Erica S.
This process changed my perception and helped me figure out what I should focus on

Working with Elle really changed my perception from always looking at my flaws to looking at them less as flaws and more as things that I could work on or things that I’m less familiar with. This has left me thinking about what I am more comfortable with. This helped me figure out what I should focus my thoughts on and what I shouldn’t. Elle was nice, easy to talk to and most importantly understanding.”
- Ridge G.
Changed My Life

"It's not an exaggeration to say, what Elle shared with me changed my life."
-MaryAnn
To Better Show Up in the World

“Working with Elle to determine and activate my personal process was an extremely rewarding experience. She put so much time, love and energy into our session and it showed. I felt seen and understood. The wisdom she helped me uncover has had a lasting impact in my life. I would recommend working with Elle to anyone who is ready to grow and learn more about how they can better show up in the world.”
- Ginger M.
Everyone Needs to Do This

"How can you possibly understand this much about me so quickly? Everyone needs to do this!"
- Sarah
It boosted my confidence, energized me, and I couldn’t help but leave with a skip in my step.

“Spending time with Elle to go over my Personal Process was quite empowering. She offered incredible and very details insight as to how I am wired. It boosted my confidence, energize me, and I couldn't help but leave with a skip in my step. This assessment and her review of its meaning is a must! Don’t wait any longer!”
-Paula N.
It felt like he had been lifted up

“After my youngest son worked with Elle, I felt like he had been lifted up, was more self-aware and confident in how he does things best. Her emotional intelligence specialty, innate ability to understand and translate individual traits along with her incredible gift to connect is highly needed and beneficial, especially for our kiddos who need some extra help developing positive mindsets to handle everyday challenges.”
- Janelle C.
Understanding how to better communicate

"My partner and I gained a better understanding of how to communicate more effectively after we worked with Elle."
- Kim